Thriving Through Mentorship

Dr. Allie McDow's Journey with Christ and Mentorship

Dr. McDow's journey with mentorship began during her first year of medical school about 15 years ago. She quickly realized that medicine is not a race but a journey, and she needed to be plugged into a community for support. During this time, she was fortunate to have three women mentors who poured into her life, even amidst their busy schedules. These mentors encouraged her to persevere and set an example by sharing their own experiences and wisdom.

Dr. McDow believes that mentorship is a two-way street, where both the mentor and mentee benefit from the relationship. She draws inspiration from 1 Thessalonians 3:12, which speaks to the heart of mentorship - allowing God's love to fill our lives and overflow onto others. Mentoring is about sharing life experiences, both successes and failures, and being authentic with one another.

Overcoming Barriers to Mentorship

One of the main barriers to mentorship is the lack of time and ability. Allie suggests inviting your mentee to join you in your daily activities, such as grabbing a cup of coffee between surgery cases or going for a pedicure on the weekends. By incorporating mentoring into your existing schedule, it becomes more manageable and less overwhelming.

Another barrier is the belief that one is not qualified or experienced enough to be a mentor. However, Allie emphasizes that mentorship is about connecting and sharing life. Everyone has something valuable to offer, and being authentic with your mentee can make a significant impact.

Starting and Nurturing Mentorship Relationships

Mentorship relationships can begin organically through professional organizations, work, church, or even missions trips. While structured programs can be helpful, organic relationships often thrive more naturally. It's essential to understand that mentorship doesn't have to be a lifelong commitment. There are different seasons in life, and it's okay for mentorship relationships to have a conclusion. Setting expectations from the beginning can alleviate any pressure or intimidation.

The Blessing of Being a Mentor

Being a mentor is not only a blessing to the mentee but also to the mentor themselves. Sharing experiences and celebrating successes with a mentee brings joy and combats burnout. It reminds mentors that they are not alone and that community is vital. Mentoring keeps mentors accountable and encourages them to stay rooted in God's word.

Encouragement for Seeking and Becoming a Mentor

For those seeking a mentor or wanting to become a mentor, Allie suggests identifying the areas in your life where you desire mentorship. Whether it's spiritual, professional, or research mentorship, there are avenues available to build these relationships. Being available with your time, coming up with questions, and making time for one another are crucial steps. Additionally, putting yourself out there and being engaged in opportunities can lead to meaningful mentorship relationships.